Dear friends,
The good news of the week has been the warmer weather. There were several consecutive days of fog and some icy roads, but the extreme cold temps are gone for the foreseeable future.
I don’t know who needs to hear what follows, but I feel there may be many. This is from a devotional by Pastor J.D. Greear.
He writes: Don’t underestimate the power to heal broken relationships in these two words: “I’m sorry.”
“Through the men’s ministry at our church, I heard of a guy named Ken who, when he was a teenager, was discussing his future plans with his father. There was some conflict: His dad wanted him to take a particular academic course, and he didn’t want to. In a moment of anger, Ken said, “What do you know, Dad? You’re just a dumb factory worker.” His dad had been a great father and always provided for his family, but he had never been to college, and those words crushed his spirit.
More than 20 years later, after hearing a message at church on the power of words to heal or destroy, Ken remembered what he said to his father. So, he called his dad and asked if he remembered what he had said to him 20 years earlier. To his shock, his dad began to cry. Ken told him, “I’m so sorry, Dad. I’m so grateful for you and so proud of you. All the things that matter in life, you excel at all of them.”
It was a turning point for their relationship and the beginning of healing, spurred by the simple act of acknowledging a hurt and apologizing.
Many of us need to apologize to someone, maybe for a hurt from last week or five, 10, or even 20 years ago. Start by saying you’re sorry. Then, speak blessing and encouragement and love into someone’s life, and watch the difference it makes in their life—and yours.
Another aspect of this is forgiveness. If we have been wronged and the other party apologizes, it is important for us to accept the apology and respond in love. I believe we are to forgive those who wronged us. Even if that person is no longer with us, we need to forgive their actions. It is for our good, and peace of mind. We are commanded by the Lord to forgive others.
In His grip,
Pastor Jerry